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What to Watch Thursday 10/4: Grey's Anatomy Goes Back in Time, Glee's Couples are Tested

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Tonight catch all new episodes of Glee as Klaine and Brittana reunite, Grey's Anatomy, The Office, Project Runway with guest judge Zoe Saldana and Scandal.

What to Watch: Thursday, October 4

9:00pm: Grey's Anatomy, ABC (1 hr) NEW

This flashback episode takes viewers back to the scene of the crash as each doctor works to cope with injuries and heartache. Callie and Arizona struggle with what the next step will be following her injury. Check out a sneak peek below.

9:00pm: Glee, Fox (1 hr) NEW

Rachel and Kurt deal with surprise visits from Finn and Blaine in New York. Meanwhile back in Ohio, Santana and Brittany deal with the pitfalls of a long distance relationship and Emma and Will disagree on a job offer. Watch a behind the scenes sneak peek below.

9:00pm: The Office, NBC (30 mins) NEW

Andy annoys the office with his bragging when he learns he is related to Michelle Obama. Meanwhile, Dwight teaches Erin a new language, Nellie tries to convince Pam that Jim is cheating on her and Darryl struggles in his new position.

9:00pm: Project Runway, Lifetime (1.5 hrs) NEW

Zoe Saldana guest judges as the designers are taken to a grand location to get inspiration for new avant-garde pieces.

10:00pm: Scandal, ABC (1 hr) NEW

Cyrus and Fitz are forced to deal with a foreign policy emergency, while Olivia and her team work to clean up the mess when a public figure is caught in a compromising position.

This morning and afternoon, check your local listings for information about EllenThe Talk (CBS) and The Chew (ABC). Days of Our Lives on NBC (check local listings for time) features gay character Will as a series regular; keep an eye out for developments between Will and recurring gay characters Sonny and Neil.

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About GLAAD
The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see www.glaad.orgwww.facebook.com/glaad and www.twitter.com/glaad.


#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action to stand up to bullying - Day 4

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It’s official: Spirit Day is almost here. On October 19, millions of Americans will once again wear purple in a stand against bullying and to show their support for LGBT youth. 

This year, GLAAD is counting down to Spirit Day with 19 Days of Action – quick and easy steps you can take each day to help stand up to bullying.

Ready to get started?

#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action – Day 4, October 4, 2012

Now that you've taken the Spirit Day pledge to go purple in a stand against bullying, watch a lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT) movie or TV show. Check out GLAAD's What to Watch on TV and look below for some ideas:

The documentary film BULLY, directed by Sundance and Emmy-award winning filmmaker, Lee Hirsch, brings human scale to this startling statistic, offering an intimate, unflinching look at how bullying has touched five kids and their families. The movie is now playing in select theaters, and you can support The BULLY Project, support BULLY on Facebook, and follow The BULLY Movie on Twitter. You can also join Love Is Louder and support The BULLY Project by uploading your own Action Photo and expressing your action against bullying!

Tonight on FOX at 9/8c, you can catch an all new episode of Glee. In Season 4, Episode 4 "The Break-Up," Rachel (Lea Michele) and Kurt (Chris Colfer) are caught off-guard when they get unexpected visits in New York City. Meanwhile, Santana (Naya Rivera) and Brittany (Heather Morris) deal with the long distance between them, and Will (Matthew Morrison) and Emma (Jayma Mays) disagree on a new job offer. Glee producer Brad Falchuk says that all four main Glee couples -- Finchel, Brittana, Klaine, and Wemma -- will be tested in this episode, and not all of them are going to make it.

By committing to show your support for LGBT youth by watching a film or TV show involving LGBT people, you’re taking a stand against bullying and making your voice heard.

Be sure to check www.glaad.org/spiritday tomorrow for more easy ways you can take part in Spirit Day and help take a stand against bullying! You can also download the “Go Purple for #SpiritDay powered by Toyota Financial Services” apps for iPhone and Android. The app provides users with anti-bullying resources, calls to action, and a tool that can turn photos purple and share to Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. The free app is now available in the Apple App Store and on Google Play.

Tweet about your support for Spirit Day: 

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Leading Catholic Theologian (and Colbert Report Chaplain) Supports Spirit Day

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James J. Martin, a leading Catholic theologian and Culture Editor of the Jesuit magazine America, has tweeted his support for Spirit Day. Millions of Americans will be wearing purple on October 19 to speak out against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. 

In his tweet, Martin points to a specific effort to encourage Catholics to participate in Spirit Day, Catholics for #SpiritDay, which is collaborating with GLAAD to encourage Catholics to take the Spirit Day pledge. Martin is probably the most prominent Catholic Spirit Day supporter. Other notable Catholic organizations participating are the Archdiocese of Los Angeles Ministry with Lesbian & Gay Catholics, the Catholic Association for Lesbian and Gay Ministry, DignityUSA, and Fortunate Families.

More and more Catholic parishes are also promoting Spirit Day and encouraging their members to wear purple, including the Church of St. Francis Xavier in New York City and Holy Angles Catholic Community or Orlando. 

Martin and these Catholic communities join hundreds of other corporations, national landmarks, schools, local communities and millions of Americans in wearing purple for Spirit Day on October 19, 2012 in a stand against bullying and to show their support for LGBT youth. Hundreds of churches, synagogues and faith gatherings will share sermons and messages that highlight the Spirit Day message of anti-bullying.

In addition to being culture editor at America Magazine, Fr. Martin is a frequent contributor for CNN, NPR, Fox News, Time Magazine, and The New York Times. Fr. Martin also has the distinction of being the "Chaplain to the Colbert Nation" on Comedy Central's Colbert Report. You can see him here discussing God's approval rating.

GLAAD is counting down the days to October 19, with 19 Days of Action. Follow GLAAD each day to learn how you can participate and make our schools safer for LGBT youth. Catholic, and other religious groups are encouraged to participate in Spirit Day by visiting the Faith Page of the Spirit Day web site. 

What to Watch Thursday 10/11: Project Runway Season Finale

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Tonight catch part one of the two night Project Runway season finale.

What to Watch: Thursday, October 11

9:00pm: Project Runway, Lifetime (1.5 hrs) SEASON FINALE

In part one of the season finale the final four designers return to New York to present three looks to the judges in hopes of winning the fashion week spot.

This morning and afternoon, check your local listings for information about EllenThe Talk (CBS) and The Chew (ABC). Days of Our Lives on NBC (check local listings for time) features gay character Will as a series regular; keep an eye out for developments between Will and recurring gay characters Sonny and Neil.

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About TV Gayed
Grab the remote or set your DVR! GLAAD brings you the most up-to-date listing of LGBT content on television every weekday. Check GLAAD Blog for daily TV Gayed posts!

About GLAAD
The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see www.glaad.orgwww.facebook.com/glaad and www.twitter.com/glaad.

#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action to stand up to bullying - Day 11. It's National Coming Out Day!

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It’s official: Spirit Day is almost here. On October 19, millions of Americans will once again wear purple in a stand against bullying and to show their support for LGBT youth. 

This year, GLAAD is counting down to Spirit Day with 19 Days of Action – quick and easy steps you can take each day to help stand up to bullying.

Ready to get started?

#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action – Day 11, October 11, 2012

It's NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY! As our LGBT friends and loved ones take the bold step of coming out, it is important that they know that their allies everywhere, straight or not, have their backs.

Are you a straight ally? Do you need a straight ally? Use PFLAG's Facebook app for National Coming Out Day to show and receive support in the movement for equality.

Also, the It Gets Better Project is hosting a Google+ Hangout today at 5:00 PM EST. Submit questions about LGBT issues and coming out to their website, to their Twitter (with the hashtag #IGBHANGOUT), or in a recorded video message, and It Gets Better may play it live during the first video chat of their live "Google+ Hangouts: It Gets Better Plus" series. Spirit Day Ambassadors Janet Mock and Tiq Milan will take part in the hangouts, alongside others including It Gets Better founder Dan Savage.

You can also head over to the Human Rights Campaign's National Coming Out Day resource page for more information. 

Another way to celebrate National Coming Out Day is to encourage the presidential candidates to come out against bullying by signing a new petition asking them to wear purple on October 19th for Spirit Day. 

The petition was created by Katy Butler, Spirit Day Ambassador, who previously created a Change.org petition calling on the MPAA to change the rating of BULLY from ‘R’ to ‘PG-13’. The rating was finally changed, helping bring this important film to young people across the nation.

Sign Katy's new petition now! 

Don't forget that  you can text PURPLE to 80888 right now to support the important work of GLAAD, GLSEN and The Trevor Project with a $5 donation.

Be sure to check www.glaad.org/spiritday tomorrow for more easy ways you can take part in Spirit Day and help take a stand against bullying! You can also download the Go Purple for #SpiritDay apps for iPhone and Android. The app provides users with anti-bullying resources, calls to action, and a tool that can turn photos purple and share to Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. The free app is now available in the Apple App Store and on Google Play.

Tweet about your support for Spirit Day: 

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Nordstrom Comes Out in Support of Marriage Equality

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The Nordstrom chain of clothing stores has come out in support of Referendum 74 in Washington, which will grant marriage equality to gay and lesbian couples in the state. Blake Nordstrom, President of Nordstrom, Inc, Pete Nordstrom, President of Merchandising and Erik Nordstrom, President of Stores shared their announcement in a company-wide memo.

Nordstrom shared the full text of the email sent to employees with GLAAD:

From: Nordstrom, Blake

Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2012 8:03 AM

To: Leadership 2012

Subject: Freedom to Marry

October 11, 2012

To all employees:

We have long had a philosophical approach to our business to be inclusive about the way we serve customers as well as how we work to create a workplace where every employee is welcomed and respected. It’s simply how we operate.

With respect to our gay and lesbian employees, Nordstrom was an early adopter of adding sexual orientation to our anti-discrimination policy, which means we guarantee the same legal rights and protections in our workplace to gay and lesbian employees just as we do for other employees regardless of sex, race, color, creed, national origin, religion, age, marital status, pregnancy, physical, mental or sensory disability, and gender identity. This goes beyond the Federal government’s protection in Title VII, the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which still excludes sexual orientation. In 1998, we began offering life partner benefits to employees.

We feel the next step in this journey is to now support freedom to marry, also called marriage equality. There is a lot of awareness of this issue across the country and we’ve heard from many employees and customers. We gave this thoughtful consideration and felt the time was right to come out in support of this civil rights issue. It is our belief that our gay and lesbian employees are entitled to the same rights and protections marriage provides under the law as our other employees. We also believe supporting freedom to marry will help us create a more attractive and inclusive workplace for our current and prospective employees. Again – this decision is consistent with our long-time philosophy of inclusivity and equality for our customers and employees.

We recognize there are differing opinions about freedom to marry. We hope we’ve been clear about why we made this decision. To all of our employees – if you choose to talk about this with each other, please do so respectfully. We want you to be informed about our position so you can also respectfully answer any customer questions that come your way.

Thank you.

Blake, Pete, Erik

Blake Nordstrom, President, Nordstrom, Inc

Pete Nordstrom, President of Merchandising, Nordstrom

Erik Nordstrom, President of Stores, Nordstrom

Nordstrom joins many Washington-based companies who have come out in support for marriage equality, including REI, Expedia, Amazon, Starbucks, Microsoft, and Nike. In Minnesota, General Mills and Thomson Reuters have come out agains the proposed marriage amendment that would limit the freedom to marry. Carlson Company Chairman, Marilyn Carlson Nelson has been actively campaigning against the amendment. Additionally, GOP Hedge Fund billionaire Paul Singer made a donation to advocate for marriage equality in Maine.

Currently, the latest poll in Washington shows support for Referendum 74 leading by 55% with 40% opposed. 

Nordstrom wished to have their support be known beyond Washington. Their support could have influence in Minnesota, Maine, and Maryland, which are also voting on marriage equality on November 6.

"Nordstrom joins many national brands in supporting marriage for all of their employees and customers," said GLAAD President Herndon Graddick. "It's not only a smart business decision to stand with gay and lesbian couples, but it is a reflection of the majority of Americans who today support marriage equality."

For more information please visit Washington United for Marriage.

Read Ohio Boy Scout Mom Jennifer Tyrrell's Letter to Local Scout Council

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Ohio River Valley Council
Boy Scouts of America
Attn: Paul Tucker, President
 
Dear Mr. Tucker:
 
I write today to urge the Ohio River Valley Council of the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) to join the growing number of troops from all across the nation that have rejected the BSA’s ban on gay scouts and lesbian, and gay scout leaders.

After serving for nearly a year as den leader of my 7 year-old son Cruz’s Cub Scouts troop in Bridgeport, Ohio, in April of this year I was forced to abandon my duties, my position and – most devastatingly – my scouts, simply because I’m gay.
 
Cruz said to me just a few days ago that he wants to join scouts again. He really enjoyed building cars for the Pinewood Derby and learning new things with his friends. He also said that he doesn’t want to join if I’m not allowed to be there, because - although he is young – Cruz knows that it’s wrong to discriminate against people because they are different.  
 
Among the troops that accept leaders and scouts who happen to be gay:
 
The Baden-Powell Council
Binghamton, NY

The Boys Scouts Boston Minuteman Council
Boston, MA

Connecticut Yankee Council
New Haven, CT

Connecticut Rivers Council
Hartford, CT
 
Green Mountain Council
Vermont

Narragansett Council
Rhode Island

The Northern Star Council
Minnesota and Wisconsin

Piedmont Council
Piedmont, CA

Santa Clara County Council
San Jose, CA

Seneca Waterways Council
Rochester, NY

Troop 500
Amherst, MA

Troop 1
Minnesota

Troop 79
Marblehead, MA

Troop 729
New York, NY
 
Cub Scout Pack 30
Berkeley, CA
 
Cub Scout Pack 24
Redlands, CA

(See a map of all the BSA Councils that welcome all scouts and families here)
 
Although the press has profiled these troops, the BSA has not taken any disciplinary action or spoken out against them.

Over 330,000 people have joined me in calling for an end to the ban on gay scouts by signing an online petition. One of them was one of your own Board of Directors, who resigned from that body in a stand against the BSA’s “wholly discriminatory” policies.

I have appeared on national news outlets like CNN, The New York Times and MSNBC to talk about how important scouting is and how disappointed Cruz and all of my scouting parents are that I can no longer participate.

My story prompted members of the BSA National Board of Directors, AT&T CEO Randall Stephenson and Ernst & Young Chairman James Turley, to express their opposition to the ban, as well as their resolve to see it overturned. Even President Barack Obama and his Republican opponent Mitt Romney have spoken out against the BSA’s long history of discrimination, both saying they disagree with the ban.  
 
Change is happening. More and more troops are allowing every committed scout or leader for who they are despite the national ban.
 
Today, I call on the Ohio River Valley Council to join those troops by permitting me to apply to be Cruz’s den leader of Pack 109 or to meet with my son and I in-person.
 
It’s not a matter of if this policy will come to an end; it’s a matter of when. The Ohio River Valley Council should follow the Scout Law -- which challenges every scout to be courteous, kind and brave – and which have made the Boy Scouts such an important organization in our culture today.
 
Sincerely,
 
Jennifer Tyrrell
Pack 109, Ohio River Valley Council
Boy Scouts of America
 

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See Jennifer and her family deliver 300,000 signatures to the Boy Scouts of America

Read more about Jennifer and her work with GLAAD to overturn this discriminatory ban

Engage Your School Or College To Go Purple On #SpiritDay!

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This year on October 19, millions of Americans will once again wear purple for Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. The message of Spirit Day speaks directly to students, who often face or participate in bullying at school. Now, GLAAD has teamed up with organizations including the GSA Network, Campus Pride and GLSEN to help students, faculty, and staff at schools and colleges around the country go purple on Spirit Day! Below are some ways that you can engage the participation of your friends, classmates, colleagues, local media and school officials.

If your school or student group is going purple for Spirit Day, let us know at www.glaad.org/spiritday/schools!

Students, faculty and staff at K-12 schools:

1.     Wear purple in school or just around town. Tell people why you are wearing purple, share the history and message of Spirit Day, and ask those around you to join in wearing purple to stand against bullying.

2.     Get active! Host a Spirit Day speak-out event where people share their coming out stories.

3.     Take over a class! Get your teacher’s permission to take over a class and lead a discussion about LGBTQ issues at your school.

4.     Engage media! Get your actions publicized in the school news and in local news in your area. Invite local media to cover an event at your school. Find out how to contact local media with GLAAD and GSA Network's Spirit Day Kit below!

5.     Share information about Spirit Day directly with students, faculty and staff at your school with GLAAD’s Spirit Day Poster below!

6.     Find out more about these and other ways you can take action on Spirit Day in the GLAAD and GSA Network's Spirit Day Kit below!

7.     Share your plans with GLAAD at http://www.glaad.org/spiritday/endorse!

Students, faculty and staff at colleges and universities:

1.     Wear purple at your job, in school, or just around town. Tell people why you are wearing purple, share the history and message of Spirit Day, and ask those around you to join in wearing purple to stand against bullying.

2.     Contact local business and organizations, and as them to support Spirit Day and LGBT youth by going purple at their place of operation and on social media.

3.     Hold an event for Spirit Day at your local community center, your college campus, or other public area. Encourage attendees to wear purple and center the event on raising awareness about local issues pertaining to LGBT youth or bullying.

4.     Encourage local media outlets to cover an event for Spirit Day or pitch a story to them that raises awareness of bullying and issues faced by LGBT youth. Find out how to contact local media with GLAAD and Campus Pride's Spirit Day Kit below!

5.     Send a letter to college administrators and public officials asking them to participate in Spirit Day by going purple on October 19.

6.      Go purple online: turn your Facebook and Twitter profile pictures purple. Use GLAAD’s tool here: www.glaad.org/spiritday

7.     Share more information about Spirit Day directly with students, faculty and staff on your college campus with GLAAD’s Spirit Day Poster below!

8.     Find out more about these and other ways you can take action on Spirit Day in the GLAAD and Campus Pride’s Spirit Day Kit below!

9.     Share your plans with GLAAD at http://www.glaad.org/spiritday/endorse!

Already finished with college?

In addition to engaging people at your job and in your community to participate in Spirit Day, you can also contact your alma mater and ask them to go purple by sharing the above information!

Please join GLAAD and the many individuals, celebrities, corporations, media outlets, schools, local communities, and even national landmarks in spreading the message of Spirit Day! Together, we can help put an end to bullying.

GLAAD and GSA Network Spirit Day Kit:

On a mobile device? View the full kit here.

 

GLAAD and Campus Pride Spirit Day Kit:

On a mobile device? View the full kit here.

 

GLAAD's Spirit Day Poster:


NY Times profiles Frank Schubert; here's what they skipped

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No, he's not someone who has an extreme quote bank, like those on the Commentator Accountability Project.  If I were to put together a CAP profile, the worst I'd be able to find in terms of rhetoric would involve the way he deliberately stirs up the "gay vs. black" divide that his employer, the National Organization For Marriage, has admitted is its policy.  For the most part, his words are more measured, and his expressed thoughts more pragmatic. But should he still be held accountable? Yes.

In the case of Frank Schubert, what he says matters much less than what he does, and who he recruits.  As the man heading up all four state marriage campaigns currently working on the discriminatory side (just as he did with both Prop 8 in California, Question One in Maine, and Amendment One in North Carolina), Schubert has built an extremely profitable career off of inequality as it pertains to same-sex couples and our families.  And to accomplish this ignoble task, Frank has recruited a team of voices who are as routinely hostile as he is pragmatic.  Frank Schubert is just the puppetmaster—to find the true tone of the campaigns that he helms, one must look to the team he recruits in any given state.

I bring up Schubert because of a New York Times profile that ran this week.  In said piece, writer Erik Eckholm ably ran down the key bio lines.  Eckholm notes Schubert's prominent role, the whopping amount of cash he takes in from each campaign, the fact that he himself has a lesbian sister who is in a domestic partnership and raising two children, his role with the National Organization For Marriage, and the strategic focus he places on children and the supposed harms LGBT people suppsoedly pose to them (sorry, Frank's lesbian sis. It's just business).  The surface-level stuff is all there. However, when it comes to the alliances that Schubert forms in order to accomplish his discriminatory goals, the Times writer sums up that element in one or two lines about the ground game, coupled with some benign comments from Derek McCoy, Schubert's key point man in Maryland.  

For those of us who see and hear what Schubert's team is saying about us and our families on a daily basis, we know that this lack of focus on Schubert's "culture war" foot soldiers is a failure to paint the full Frank Schubert picture.  So let's now do that.

Let's start with the aforementioned Derek McCoy.  A protégé of reliably incendiary pastor Harry Jackson (McCoy is an associate pastor in Jackson's church), the head of the Maryland Marriage Alliance presents to the public the same, largely pragmatic face that Schubert himself adopts.  However, if you listen a little more closely, you start to hear some things.  Just this week, I unearthed two different sermons that McCoy delivered in two different Maryland churches.  In one,  McCoy referred to gays as having "lifestyle choices" and talked of God "delivering" people like us from those existences.  In another, he, the head of the campaign opposing civil marriage equality in Maryland, said that gay families are "not what God created" and "not God's best," before then saying that he sees the push for marriage as "an assault on the very essence of who God is in our culture."  This is not nicey, nicey rhetoric—this is dehumanizing rhetoric.

Or let's turn to another state where Frank is pulling the strings: Maine.  There we have Bob Emrich and Carroll Conley heading up the Schubert show.  This would be the same Carrol Conley who routinely refers to gay people's unions as "unnatural" and who has said of his motivations: "I want to pull back the curtain and show you, really, how insidious and how evil this is."  Oh, and the same Bob Emrich who is a major "gays can change" advocate and who has presented marriage equality as a "direct challenge to the righteousness and wisdom of God."  Again, this flies in the face of the nonharmful tone that Schubert tells the New York Times writer is his aim.   

Moving to another Schubert-masterminded state: Minnesota.  The top guy there—the one who is on all of the conference calls right alongside Frank Schubert—is John Helmberger.  Mr. Helmberger has clamed that "[r]edefinition of marriage obscures the picture of Christ and his Bride, robs God of glory due him, and undermines the witness of the Church."  He has said that "citizens of heaven and citizens of an earthly kingdom" have an obligation to vote against same-sex marriage in order to "restrain evil."  And so on.  Helmberger uses charges that are, from his Christian perspective, about as serious and damning as any he couple possibly make.  That's what he did to get his role with the Schubert-led campaign.

Or what about Washington?  The man leading the charge there is much more in the Frank Schubert mold, working to keep his words in a less condemnatory state.  But even so, I've tracked Joseph Backholm saying all this, for a CAP profile that will be posted soon:

-- Postions gay relations as in conflict with "natural and moral laws": "The idea that all sex is good sex, so long as it involves adults, will not survive because it cannot survive. The natural and moral laws of the universe are not subject to court ruling or UN resolution. While many within the tolerance movement will go to the grave convinced of the justness of their cause, history will inevitably see it differently.   We judge ourselves through the filter of our intentions, but history judges our actions." 

-- Likens marriage equality to "walking on our hands and eating with our feet"

-- Says same-sex marriage is wrong "in the eternal sense" and equates it with bloodletting: "Redefining marriage in this way, saying that there is no difference between men and women, that it’s not important for children to have both a mother and a father, that’s not just bad policy, it’s wrong in the eternal sense. So because it’s untrue, it will ultimately be proven as untrue and we will come around to recognize the error of our ways. We used to believe in bloodletting as good medical practice, culture has embraced a lot of things temporarily until they realized it’s based on things that are not true. This is one of those, it has to be temporary, not just because I want it to be temporary, but because it’s untrue in the eternal sense. "

-- Compares marriage equality with the redefinition of gravity: "Imagine a scenario in which we decided that gravity needed to be done away with because it discriminates against wingless creatures.  Having convinced all of our friends that we needed to get rid of it, we created a legislative body that passed a “flight equality” bill and declared that gravity no long applies to us.  In celebration of our legislative victory, with a sincere belief that we had freed ourselves from the law of gravity, we walked onto the roof of the Space Needle, in a cape, to celebrate our independence from gravity. Just like we would if we saw you standing on the edge of the Space Needle in the cape, those of us on this side of the debate are simply trying to avoid the inevitable pain associated by proving the existence of a law by trying to break it.  True, the consequences of breaking these laws will not be as immediate as pretending there is no gravity, but they are no less certain."

-- Says gays dont really want equal marriage but are instead "are at war with a worldview"

-- Says of pro-equality people of faith: "For the Christian, the inability to get this question right brings into serious question your ability to get anything right, biblically speaking. You can’t do calculus if you don’t know how to add or subtract." 

-- Describes same-sex marriages as "fruit from the same tree as the divorce problem

-- Says of the marriage conversation: "If logic ultimately mattered in this debate, we wouldn't be having it."

-- Claims gay couples are acting out of "insecurity": Whether they can accept it or not, a relationship involving two people of the same-sex is materially different than a relationship involving people of the opposite sex. Their effort to change the language so that it can no longer account for this difference is simply insecurity. 

-- Equates gay people's marriages with two siblings redefining their bond

-- Instructs supporters: "Tolerance is not something to be pursued"

It's rhetoric that goes beyond just the subject of civil marriage recognition, even with Backholm's strides to keep it on subject.  

And this same pattern can be found in just about any state where Schubert has worked on marriage.  The North Carolina campaign seemed to almost revel in its faith-based condemantions.  Heck, Tami Fitzgerald routinely admited that she was against gays living as who they are, and even instructed local pastors to "to give the Biblical admonitions against homosexuality."  Yet what did Frank Schubert call Ms. Fitzgerald when he worked in North Carolina?  "Head of the campaign."

This stuff does not happen in a vaccum detached from Frank Schubert's own work.  This stuff *IS* Frank Schubert's work.  Again, he's just the man at the top, shifting the chess pieces and collecting the hefty paychecks.  For me, it's always about the work, not the person.  In the case of Frank Schubert, his body of work is undeniably and deliberately hurtful to many good and decent human beings.

In The New York Times piece, Mr Schubert is quoted as saying: “It’s hurtful to know that many people think I dislike gays and lesbians and wish them harm.”  But what does he think, that we LGBT folk and our allies are just sitting around wanting to think up smears about California marketing guys like himself?  That we live to position people like him as hurtful people?  The truth is we would love to not ever have to think about Frank Schubert if he merely had a career built around convincing people to buy into certain things.  But unfortunately, he made a choice to build his career by directly assaulting loving families and good, hardworking Americans who happen to be gay. He did this by building up teams that have more than made their larger intentions clear—larger intentions that deny us of our served peace of mind, in addition to the protections of marriage.  

Frank Schubert earned his reputation, and now Frank Schubert must own this reputation and its reasons for being.  As this campaign goes on, it is the responsibility of media outlets to ensure that he does.

Religion News Summary: Bishop Brouhaha, Black Pastors Speaking Out, and Getting into the Spirit of Spirit Day

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GLAAD’s Religion, Faith & Values program works to elevate LGBT-affirming voices of faith in mainstream, regional, and community media. To find out more, visit www.glaad.org/faith. For additional religion and faith updates, be sure to subscribe via our online registration form. We welcome suggestions at faith@glaad.org.

Visit our LGBT Religion News Summary blog post for a complete list of links.

Spirit Day is next Friday, when millions of people, churches, synagogues, organizations, businesses, and media groups will go purple to oppose bullying and support LGBT youth. Even “Chaplain to the Colbert Report” has tweeted his support. In the 19 Days of Action, Day Seven was to ask your place of worship to go purple. There is still time to take the Spirit Day Pledge or register your organization as a Spirit Day Endorser.

Bishops in San Francisco got into a snit when the pro-LGBT Episcopal Bishop Marc Andrus was detained at the installation of anti-LGBT Roman Catholic Bishop, Salvatore Cordileone. But he’s not alone. Bishop John Nienstedt, the main Catholic activist behind the Minnesota anti-marriage equality amendment, was featured in a lengthy profile, but the most interesting story was when he told one mother to stop supporting her gay child at the risk of her salvation. Even as the Roman Catholic hierarchy cries about “religious freedom”, Catholics are still incredibly supportive of LGBT people.

However, in Maryland, Black Church leaders are gaining their pro-equality voices, and even starring in marriage equality ads. Cedric Harmon says this is because they are talking to one another. A prominent Spokane, Washington, clergyman is also supporting marriage equality. And UCC clergy are leading organizing efforts and even offering their buildings in Minnesota.

In lighter and easier news, Middle Church is releasing their CD “Welcome” with television and Broadway actor Tituss Burgess and Ed Ness of The Evangelical Network talks to Swirl Radio about being a gay Christian.

 

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Catholic University Students Coming Out in a Network

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LGBT and allied students at Catholics universities are using National Coming Out Day to launch a new association calling on the church to expand its acceptance of LGBT equality. The Catholic Association of Students for Equality (CASE) is made up of LGBT student groups from eleven Catholic-affiliated colleges.

Each LGBT student organization mailed a letter highlighting the benefits of LGBT and Catholic collaboration to their own Bishops, Diocese, and school administrators. The letters referenced how the Church’s stance on LGBT issues has been harmful, using passages from scripture and the Church’s catechisms.  However, it focused on how the groups that make up CASE have been able to work with Catholic institutions to better their campus communities. CASE’s goal is to raise awareness about these instances of cooperation and acceptance.

“Before some of us were tall enough to even see over the pews, let alone understand our orientations, we were being raised with Catholic values. We were taught to believe in family, love, and commitment. To work to ensure respect, inclusion, and human dignity,” wrote Thomas Lloyd, Georgetown student and founder of CASE. “Therefore, it is only natural that as we grew into adults we would apply these values to how we viewed our LGBTQ identities.”

So far, participating schools include: DePaul University, Chicago; Georgetown University, Washington, DC; Fordham University, New York City; Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, California; College of the Holy Cross, Worcester, Massachusetts; University of San Francisco; Loyola University, Chicago; Loyola University,  New Orleans; Loyola University,  Maryland; Boston College; and Loyola Marymount University Los Angeles. CASE is actively reaching out to LGBT students at other Catholic schools to grow the list of participating schools.

“These students are right in step with the strong Catholic support for LGBT equality that we see nationwide, “ said Ross Murray, GLAAD’s Director of Religion, Faith & Values. “At a time when the Roman Catholic hierarchy has only negative messages, these students remind us that the true Catholic values are about dignity and solidarity.”

More information can be found at CASE’s Facebook page. CASE and many of the participating networks will also be going purple for Spirit Day on October 19, to stand with LGBT youth and oppose bullying. Over time the group will post more photos, stories, and videos, to show how LGBTQ groups on Catholic campuses are helping their administrations and students better fulfill their catholic mission.

Unprecedented Pressure on Boy Scouts to Lift Gay Ban Continues Growing; Jennifer Tyrrell, Eagle Scout Ryan speak out as Massachusetts pack denounces policy

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News is breaking that a Beverly Massachusetts Cub Scout pack has publicly rejected the Boy Scouts of America policy that bans gay scouts and scout leaders.

“We have been and will always be open and affirming, and will never turn our backs on a child or adult that seeks to embrace the core values found at the heart of Scouting,” Pack 4 Cubmaster Tony Gangi said. The pack’s committee, which has 11 members, voted unanimously to reject the policy last month. This week, the committee issued its own “statement of inclusion,” saying the benefits of Scouting “should be available to all children and their families, regardless of their sexual orientation.”

Today, Ohio mom Jennifer Tyrrell, who was kicked out of her son's Boy Scout troop for being gay in April of this year, called on Americans to support those Boy Scout troops who have stated that they welcome all Scouts and families, despite the discriminatory stance of the Boy Scouts of America.

Tyrrell sent a letter to her local council asking her local leaders to join those around the country who have stood up against discrimination. You can read her letter here.

See Scouts for Equality's full map of all the BSA Councils that have rejected the BSA's discriminatory ban here. Many other packs have taken steps to reject this policy, and to accept and welcome all families.

Ryan Andresen, who was rejected by the Boy Scouts of America for his Eagle Scout Rank despite having met all of the qualifications, spoke today with Ellen DeGeneres about the discrimination he is facing.

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More than 350,000 people have signed a change.org petition started by Ryan's mom to allow her son to achieve the rank he worked so hard for. Those signatures join the more than 330,000 asking the BSA to reinstate Ohio mom Jennifer Tyrrell, who was kicked out as den leader of her son's scout troop because she is gay.

Tyrrell is speaking out in support of Ryan, saying “What happened to Ryan and to me, as well as so many other Americans that we’ve read about over the past few months, has to end.”

Joining her in supporting Ryan is 7 year-old Cub Scout Miles from California, who sent a handwritten letter to the Boy Scouts that reads: "I am a Cub Scout in Pack 108. I'm sad you are not letting gay people in your community. My mom and dad are sad too, but they are letting me be a Cub Scout anyway. We hope someday you'll change your mind."

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Miles and Jen have the backing of leaders from corporate America as well. Eagle Scout and LGBT Advocate Zach Wahls recently called for Intel, which also gave to the BSA in 2010, to cease its donations, prompting the company to clarify that it has updated its donation policy to only fund organizations that vow not to discriminate based on sexual orientation, which would exclude the BSA. In 2010, Intel reportedly gave the Boy Scouts more than $700,000.

More and more Americans are calling on the Boy Scouts of America to join other national organizations like the Girl Scouts of the USA, 4-H Club, Adventure Scouts USA and Boys & Girls Club and end its discrimination against gay people.

You can read more about GLAAD's work around this issue with Jennifer, Zach, and others at http://glaad.org/scouts

Lance Bass on 'The Ricki Lake Show': National Coming Out Day Should Be National Asking Day Too

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Lance Bass appeared on The Ricki Lake Show this past week where he discussed coming out and his desire to help others. Today, the show posted a new behind-the-scenes clip where Bass says he feels that National Coming Out Day should also be National Asking Day citing that had his parents talked to him earlier and let him know they would still love and accept him, he would have come out much earlier in his life. Check out the clip below.

Make your voice heard on The Ricki Lake Show Facebook page question: "Agree or Disagree: “National Coming Out Day should also be National Asking Day.” You can also retweet Ricki’s message of LGBT support here, “Happy #NationalComingOutDay YOU are strong enough to be who YOU are! YOU ARE NOT ALONE love you :)) xoxo #LGBT”. The Ricki Lake Show YouTube Channel has additional clips of Lance’s interview up now including his advice for those struggling to come out and his own decision to come out.

Spirit Day ambassador Shane Bitney Crone also visited Ricki last week to talk about Bridegroom, the documentary based on the emotional journey of Bitney Crone and his partner Tom Bridegroom whose life was tragically cut short. Bitney Crone’s video about their relationship, “It Could Happen to You,” posted on YouTube on the anniversary of Tom’s death went viral and caught the heart and attention of Linda Bloodworth-Thomason and the project’s Kickstarter broke funding records.

Take a stand against bullying and support LGBT youth by participating in Spirit Day on Friday, October 19. To get involved, simply take the pledge to “go purple” on October 19 as we work to create a world in which LGBT teens are accepted for who they are. You can download GLAAD’s Spirit Day resource kit which contains tools to get your local community involved. Spirit Day participants can also spread the word and tell their friends that they’re standing up against bullying and text PURPLE to 80888 to donate $5 to support the important work GLAAD, GLSEN and The Trevor Project do every day to end bullying and support LGBT youth.

What to Watch Weekend 10/12-14: Revenge's Emily Haunted By Her Past

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This weekend catch all new episodes of Say Yes to the Dress: Atlanta, The Amazing Race, Revenge, The Good Wife and Upstairs Downstairs.

What to Watch: Friday, October 12

9:00pm: Say Yes to the Dress: Atlanta, TLC (30 mins) NEW

Two brides run into disagreements with family when they want more revealing wedding gowns than their families are comfortable with displaying at the ceremony.

9:30pm: Say Yes to the Dress: Atlanta, TLC (30 mins) NEW

Tamlyn refuses to come out of the dressing room when her old-fashioned mother won't stop picking on her dress choices. Tamlyn's friends step in to talk her mother down.

This morning and afternoon, check your local listings for information about Ellen,The Talk (CBS) & The Chew (ABC). Days of Our Lives on NBC (check local listings for time) features gay character Will as a series regular; keep an eye out for developments between Will and recurring gay characters Sonny and Neil.

What to Watch: Sunday, October 14

8:00pm: The Amazing Race, CBS (1 hr) NEW

The teams continue the race in Bangil, Indonesia and the contestants face a Double U-turn challenge. This season's cast includes gay couple Josh Kilmer-Purcell and Brent Ridge (better known as The Fabulous Beekman Boys) and gay Chippendales dancer Jaymes Vaughan.

9:00pm: Revenge, ABC (1 hr) NEW

Emily is haunted by her past as the Grayson's find themselves again at the center of a media whirlwind following Victoria's public return.

9:00pm: The Good Wife, CBS (1 hr) NEW

Alicia and Will represent an internet startup company in a case against a search engine accused of manipulating search results. Meanwhile, Eli attempts to head off a scandal that could ruin Peter's campaign.

9:00pm: Upstairs Downstairs, PBS (1 hr) NEW

The second season of this British period drama introduces Alex Kingston as Blanche Mottershead, a doctor who was in a relationship with Lady Portia Alresford and suffers the consequences when Portia releases a thinly veiled memoir about their relationship. 

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Remembering Matthew Shepard

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Matthew Shepard died on October 12, 1998, five days after being brutally attacked in one of the most notorious anti-gay hate crimes in American history. Matthew’s death changed the way people viewed and talked about LGBT people, and eventually led to the passage of the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, a federal law against bias-motivated crimes targeting LGBT people, among others.

GLAAD was on the ground in Laramie, Wyoming, shortly after the attack. Former National News Media Director Cathy Renna wrote in 2010:

It is impossible to document all the work GLAAD did related to Matt’s murder, but some of the most important pieces still resonate today. Whether is was working with the students to tell their stories and talk to the media in a safe and comfortable way, being a key resource to journalists and putting Matt’s death in context, working with local communities around the country to help them get media coverage of how hates crimes have affected their communities, being an integral part of the Laramie Project’s success and working with Matthew’s amazing family, who have continued his legacy through the work of the Matthew Shepard Foundation are just some.

Matthew’s mother, Judy Shepard, who has since become a staunch advocate for the lives of LGBT people, wrote last year about what she learned in the days following her son’s death:

We learned about the LGBT community and its long struggle for acceptance and equality. We learned how easily LGBT people could be fired from their jobs just for being themselves, how they couldn't serve their country openly, couldn't marry, couldn't adopt kids in some states. And most of all, we learned about the fear so many otherwise good people had in their hearts about their gay neighbors, coworkers and family members.

She went on to say that her family “decided to try to make a difference in his name.” The Matthew Shepard Foundation was created to stand up for the LGBT community in Matthew’s memory.

Fourteen years after his death, GLAAD remembers Matthew Shepard.  

 


#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action to stand up to bullying - Day 12

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Spirit Day is almost here. On October 19, millions of Americans will once again wear purple in a stand against bullying and to show their support for LGBT youth. 

This year, GLAAD is counting down to Spirit Day with 19 Days of Action – quick and easy steps you can take each day to help stand up to bullying.

Ready to get started?

#SpiritDay: 19 Days of Action – Day 12, October 12, 2012

Support LGBT youth and stand against bullying! When you text PURPLE to 80888, you are supporting the important work GLAAD, GLSEN and The Trevor Project do every day!

After you text PURPLE to 80888, post to Facebook and Twitter. Then ask 5 friends to also text PURPLE to 80888.

Celebrities like Wendy Williams, Shay Mitchell, and Pauly D are joining landmarks like the New York Stock Exchange and the Reuters building in Times Square by going purple. Even Facebook and the NBA have signed on for Spirit Day! Help bring Spirit Day to even more people by donating only $5 by texting PURPLE to 80888.

Another way to celebrate Spirit Day is to encourage the presidential candidates to come out against bullying by signing a new petition asking them to wear purple on October 19th for Spirit Day. 

The petition was created by Katy Butler, Spirit Day Ambassador, who previously created a Change.org petition calling on the MPAA to change the rating of BULLY from ‘R’ to ‘PG-13’. The rating was finally changed, helping bring this important film to young people across the nation.

Sign Katy's new petition now! 

Be sure to check www.glaad.org/spiritday tomorrow for more easy ways you can take part in Spirit Day and help take a stand against bullying! You can also download the “Go Purple for #SpiritDay powered by Toyota Financial Services” apps for iPhone and Android. The app provides users with anti-bullying resources, calls to action, and a tool that can turn photos purple and share to Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. The free app is now available in the Apple App Store and on Google Play.

Tweet about your support for Spirit Day: 

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The GLAAD Wrap: Gayby Opens, Beth Ditto Memoir Released, and Secret Life of the American Teenager Ending

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Every week, The GLAAD Wrap brings you LGBT-related entertainment news highlights, fresh stuff to watch out for, and fun diversions to help you kick off the weekend.

1) Writer-director Jonathan Lisecki’s critically acclaimed film Gayby is being released in limited theaters this weekend. The comedic tale centers on two best friends Matt, who works at a comic book store, and yoga instructor Jenn as they decide to have a baby. Even though Matt is gay, they decide to conceive the old-fashioned way. Their lack of success causes them to hilariously try multiple times even though neither of them wants to perform the act. Meanwhile, their gay friends Jamie and Nelson at times revel in their misery but are also supportive of the process. Check out a trailer for the film below, and look for the film at a theater near you.

2) The upcoming fifth season of ABC Family’s The Secret Life of the American Teenager will be the teen drama’s last. The show contains numerous LGBT characters, and will begin airing its final 12 episodes in March. The show about unexpected teen pregnancies and how people deal with them will have aired in excess of 120 episodes by the series finale. These LGBT-inclusive episodes, along with Pretty Little Liars,  helped shoot ABC Family toward the top of GLAAD’s Network Responsibility Index report in recent years.

3) Lesbian singer-songwriter AG released her new EP, titled The Beatles, this week. In the set, AG covers the only six songs by the legendary band that are not owned by Sony Music. Instead, Round Hill Music recently acquired the rights to the catalogue. As a solo artist AG was never forced to hide her identity. “Don't try and be the next anybody," she says. "Try and be the first you. However you define that—offering your honest, unique perspective is the greatest gift you can give to the world.” The set features covers of “She Loves You” and “I Wanna Be Your Man,” which you can check out a music video for below. Check out the EP on iTunes.

4) Out Grammy-nominated vocalist and bassist Meshell Ndegeocello released Pour une Âme Souveraine (For a Sovereign Soul): A Dedication to Nina Simone this week. She was inspired to record this album after performing at a tribute concert for the late singer-songwriter earlier this year. Meshell previously contributed a seductive cover of “Two Doors Down” to Just Because I'm A Woman: Songs of Dolly Parton in 2003. Her new set contains 14 songs and spans the entire career of the “High Priestess of Soul” from the late ‘50s to the early ‘70s. Of course, no tribute to Nina Simone would be complete without “Please Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood” and “Feeling Good,” which Meshell reinvents with a heavy bass. Check out the album on iTunes.

5) On Tuesday, October 30th The Beacon Theatre in New York City will host Freedom to Love Now! A Concert for Marriage Equality. Sponsors BOOM For Equality and Thomas Bartlett (a.k.a. Doveman) recently announced the addition of Beth Orton, Sam Amidon, and the recently reunited Cibo Matto to an already star-studded lineup. Previously announced acts include the recently married Rufus Wainwright, fun., They Might Be Giants, and John Cameron Mitchell. Proceeds will support Freedom to Marry, and will directly effect the marriage campaigns in Maryland, Maine, Minnesota, and Washington. Click here to find out more information. You can purchase tickets here.

Beth Orton - Magpie from Arni & Kinski on Vimeo.

6) Beth Ditto literally wrote the book this time around. This week saw the release of her long-awaited memoir Coal to Diamonds. In the memoir, Ditto chronicles her upbringing in Arkansas, including confusion about her biological father and sexual abuse by her uncle. She shares the excitement of her move to Olympia, Washington where she found punk rock and vegetarianism. Ditto does not keep it secret that she believes that sexism keeps her band Gossip from greater success in the United States, and she details her thoughts on feminism. Check out the book on Amazon or find a local bookstore to support here.

7) Bent-Con, which GLAAD previously wrote about, is right around the corner. This LGBTQ (self-proclaimed) geek event is now in its third year, and will be bigger than ever. Now over two days long, Bent-Con will take place at the Marriott in Burbank, CA from November 30th through December 2nd. Talent includes Anne Rice’s son, author Christopher Rice, along with creator and writer Jane Espenson, among many others. Bent-Con, which is a non-profit, launched a Kickstarter campaign in order to better advertise the event, provide scholarships for attendees with lower income from across the world, and larger meeting spaces. Check out the kickstarter page here and a video from the creators of Bent-Con below.

American Apparel launches #SpiritDay store, donates 10% to GLAAD

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Clothing giant American Apparel has launched a #SpiritDay store featuring the retailer's purple clothing items. #SpiritDay supporters receive an exclusive 10% discount when they use the promo code SPIRIT, and American Apparel will donate an additional 10% of all proceeds to GLAAD!

Get your purple American Apparel gear here in time for #SpiritDay on 10/19 and look good while giving!

American Apparel joins a growing list of celebrities, TV shows, websites, companies, schools and landmarks going purple for #SpiritDay on 10/19, as well as millions of Americans who will wear purple in a stand against bullying and to show their support for LGBT youth. Other participants include Pretty Little Liars star Shay Mitchell, Nickelodeon's Avan Jogia, Shaq, the NBA, Facebook, the New York Stock Exchange, Times Square and more! See who else is participating here!

You can also text PURPLE to 80888 to support the important work GLAAD, GLSEN and The Trevor Project do every day to end bullying and support LGBT youth!

Be sure to check www.glaad.org/spiritday for more easy ways you can take part in Spirit Day and help take a stand against bullying! You can also download the “Go Purple for #SpiritDay powered by Toyota Financial Services” apps for iPhone and Android. The app provides users with anti-bullying resources, calls to action, and a tool that can turn photos purple and share to Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. The free app is now available in the Apple App Store and on Google Play.

Tweet about your support for Spirit Day: 

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Rejected Boy Scout Ryan Andreson to go purple with #SpiritDay Ambassadors Zach Wahls and Jennifer Tyrrell

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Spirit Day Ambassadors Zach Wahls and Jennifer Tyrrell have both spoken out in support of Ryan Andreson, whose application for Eagle Scout was rejected by the Boy Scouts of America  simply because he’s gay.

Join Zach, Jennifer and Ryan and pledge to go purple for Spirit Day on 10/19 to stand against bullying!

Wahls, who founded Scouts for Equality, met with Ryan at the Change.org office.

The nation was first introduced to Ryan's story after his mom started a Change.org petition garnering more than 350,000 signatories who agreed that he should receive his Eagle Scout rank. They joined the more than 330,000 individuals who asked the BSA to reinstate Ohio Mom and Spirit Day Ambassador Jennifer Tyrrell, who was kicked out as den leader of her son’s scout troop because she is gay. Tyrrell sent a letter to her local council asking her local leaders to join those around the country who have stood up against discrimination. You can read her letter here

Tyrrell spoke out in support of Ryan, saying “What happened to Ryan and to me, as well as so many other Americans that we’ve read about over the past few months, has to end.”

Ryan will join Jennifer, Zach and millions of Americans by going on October 19th for Spirit Day. Celebrities like Wendy Williams, Shay Mitchell, and Pauly D are joining landmarks like the New York Stock Exchange and the Reuters building in Times Square by going purple. Even Facebook and the NBA have signed on.

Another Spirit Day Ambassador is encouraging the presidential candidates to come out against bullying by signing a new petition asking them to wear purple on October 19th for Spirit Day. 

The petition was created by Katy Butler, who previously created a Change.org petition calling on the MPAA to change the rating of BULLY from ‘R’ to ‘PG-13’. The rating was finally changed, helping bring this important film to young people across the nation.

Sign Katy's new petition now! 

You can read more about the work GLAAD has been doing with Jennifer and Zach to change the Boy Scouts' anti-gay policies. You can also take the pledge to go purple for Spirit Day and join millions of others standing against bullying.

Guest Post: The Tragedy of Amanda Todd

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Yesterday was a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for me. I received some terrible news about a friend of mine, made an It Gets Better video, got some spectacular responses to that video, and found out about a girl named Amanda Todd, who lived not far from where I am, and who had died by suicide. Overall, I was feeling really happy and really upset at the same time and if you can imagine, it was a tad confusing. But with Spirit Day just a week away, yesterday really drove home the importance of standing up and showing people that you care about them.

Watching Amanda’s video detailing her experiences with bullying and harassment was devastating. Having made a ‘secrets’ video myself, I know how much courage it takes to be able to write down your life story and share it with the world. Creating that video was incredibly brave of her and despite having had my own problems at her age, I cannot even imagine going through the things that she did. The things that happened to Amanda were terrible and they made me sick to my stomach. I wanted to cry, but mostly I wanted to understand.

But thinking on it, I realized that I can’t understand. It is physically impossible for me to understand why Amanda suffered at the hands of bullies because… I don’t know how anyone could feel justified in making someone feel that way.

Amanda was bullied, she was harassed, she was physically assaulted and she was the victim of a merciless attack on her well-being. Amanda’s video makes it clear that she felt she couldn’t escape. Wherever she went, her bullies followed her. Even to a new school. For me, that’s one of the hardest parts to understand. I just can’t see why you would follow someone, essentially stalking them, after you already made them feel bad enough that they had to get away. The other part I can’t understand is how you can tell someone: “better luck next time,” after a suicide attempt. I can’t fathom how a person can feel good about saying that to someone else, how they can possibly feel justified or right. That is the kind of stuff that makes me ill because of the unfairness of it all.

A girl died before it was her time to go and the saddest part is that she will never know how many people she positively affected. Even worse, people are only now standing up to say: “I would have stood up for her,” because it’s too late. None of us can stand up for her now because she’s gone. And it’s distressing to me that none of the people in her life were able to help

Bullying is a well-discussed issue in schools everywhere. I know my school had bullying workshops and initiatives and preventative measures running all year round, and so I know it’s not a lack of education that led to Amanda’s death. People know about bullying and they know what it can do to people. It’s well known what bullying can do to a person. People always say that they will stand up to it. But did enough of us stand up for Amanda?

All of our talk and our work means little if we can’t save people like Amanda, who was so desperate for help she even posted a video asking for it. Can you imagine how many other people are feeling the same way and completely slipping under our radar?

So I encourage you to be the best person you can be. If you are in school, stand up to bullying and make friends with the person sitting all alone at lunch time. If you are a parent or a teacher, think about the serious long-term harms that bullying can lead to. If you see someone desperately calling out for help, HELP THEM. Even if you can only give a few words of comfort or a hug or a shoulder to cry on, you are helping, you are saving. Be free with your praises and your compliments and your smiles because you never know who might just need it that day. Encourage everyone you know to do their best and spread love wherever you go.

On October 19th, wear purple for Amanda Todd. Remember her story. Wear purple for victims of bullying everywhere, regardless of their orientation. Bullying is not okay and it needs to stop. Nobody deserves to go through what Amanda did. Nobody.

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